tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post113338147273292447..comments2023-10-22T10:18:54.193-05:00Comments on As My World Turns - A Conservative Mom in Her "Right" Mind: The death of a marriageNichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06559149506126040177noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133718847679535612005-12-04T11:54:00.000-06:002005-12-04T11:54:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry to hear all that you are going throug...I'm so sorry to hear all that you are going through. I wish you guidance and faith and hope during this trying time.Shooterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11656517165411195906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133717388209423372005-12-04T11:29:00.000-06:002005-12-04T11:29:00.000-06:00I am so sorry. This is my first visit here and yo...I am so sorry. This is my first visit here and your post was so filled with pain and betrayal it broke my heart.Twisted Cinderellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14273548648344779210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133628805903163352005-12-03T10:53:00.000-06:002005-12-03T10:53:00.000-06:00What a powerful post, Nic. I am so sorry that you ...What a powerful post, Nic. I am so sorry that you have experienced this. No one should have to.Jean-Luc Picardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01689798190618944262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133497030139532742005-12-01T22:17:00.000-06:002005-12-01T22:17:00.000-06:00I am so sorry, Nic. My thoughts and prayers are w...I am so sorry, Nic. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03655262571287385309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133466996345840862005-12-01T13:56:00.000-06:002005-12-01T13:56:00.000-06:00Nic: I ache for you and have been through much of ...Nic: I ache for you and have been through much of this that it was hauntting to read. E mail me if you can. God is with you right now, right in this siuation and He has exciting plans for you. HANG ON!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16539850495318868267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133460835503713842005-12-01T12:13:00.000-06:002005-12-01T12:13:00.000-06:00My heart is breaking for you. I will pray for you....My heart is breaking for you. I will pray for you. Just hang on to Jesus. It's when we're most broken that He can work out something special in hearts and lives. Huggs....Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01665064535436948703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133459803080481992005-12-01T11:56:00.000-06:002005-12-01T11:56:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know ho...I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know how you feel. It's one of the most empty inside feelings you can get. Acceptance is the first part toward healing. You'll get to that better place. Keep the Big Guy close to your heart and know that it's Matt, mat you. Hugs and lots of love to you sweetheart!<BR/>Lois LaneLois Lanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948217674898022349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133406198418382602005-11-30T21:03:00.000-06:002005-11-30T21:03:00.000-06:00Your post very nearly made me cry. I have been in...Your post very nearly made me cry. I have been in the wife's shoes, and I know how much it hurts. My wife did very nearly the exact same things the husband did, and I remember the sting clearly. <BR/><BR/>I too seperated several times, tried so very hard to work things out with my children's mother, but after lots of sneaking around and lies, it just didn't work. In the end, I felt like I'd failed and had been rejected. I was bitter and angry. <BR/><BR/>But, I want to give the wife hope. God has healed my wounds in a most magnificent and gracious way that I never thought possible. Two years later God has made me into a new person. The old joy has returned, brighter than ever before. My relationships with my daughter are better and we're closer than they ever were before. I am happier than I've been in years.<BR/><BR/>Even my relationship with my x-wife (still married, but for all intents, x-wife) is civil and peaceful now.<BR/><BR/>I give glory to God for that, because there is no way I could have found peace by myself. <BR/><BR/>So, even though things seem dark, and the hurt is so deep that it seems bottomless, tell the wife for me that God won't abandon her, and God will help and guide her through this, and if she'll let Him, God will heal her heart. Tell her she WILL know joy, and happiness, and love again, all in due time. All in God's time, and after all, He loves her and she probably knows she can trust HIM to know how to make her whole again.Mike Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05274746511721978414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8227061.post-1133405940508388722005-11-30T20:59:00.000-06:002005-11-30T20:59:00.000-06:00God Nic, I am so sorry! Just know that you are in...God Nic, I am so sorry! Just know that you are in my thoughts! Anytime you need a long distance shoulder or sounding board, drop me an email, or a message to greatwhitebear70 on YM (it may say I am not online.. but i lurk a lot). <BR/><BR/>You are a terrific person. And not just terrific for a conservative, terrific period! I admire your stregnth, and I know you will come out on the other end of this ordeal even stronger, wiser and happier. Just konw that you have an abundance of friends who will help carry your pain if you allow them to!greatwhitebearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08448430897774991335noreply@blogger.com